I Am A Parent of Multitudes

I am a parent of multitudes. A parent of three, a stepparent of three, a grandparent of six, and a previous foster parent of two. Of course, most people would say I am a parent of three, and some people may even deny me that label. I adopted my three, existentially mine forever, beloved and … Read more

Becoming a Transracial Family

We were the white parents of 2 daughters, ages 4 and 2 in 1971, when we decided to add to our family through adoption. We were living in Columbia, Missouri at the time and though we lived in a college town and our social network was made up of people linked to the University, it … Read more

An Only Child No Longer

Before my adopted brother came into our family’s lives we had lost two potential babies.  My birth mother died at a young age due to a misdiagnosed ectopic pregnancy in the 1940’s.  Then my dad married again and his new wife lost a baby girl pre-birth. Instead of my continuing to face the world as … Read more

The Unknown

Perhaps the best known feeling of an Adopted Person, is the thinking of the Unknown. The Wondering. Both, in mind and soul. Who am I. Where did I come from. I can see Your parents, know Your parents. But, where are Mine. We. Are your Parents. States the Adopted Parent, adamantly. And we love You. … Read more

Still Searching…

I was born March 23, 1978. In Corsican, Texas. The story was always told was my birth mother gave me up after she gave birth to me in the hospital. Then I was sent a foster home in Fort Worth, Texas. I was adopted at 2 months. My adopted family was from North Branch, Minnesota. They … Read more